Work with me
If you've found your way here, something's probably loud enough that you're ready to stop sitting with it.
Another framework isn’t the answer. You don’t need a five-step system, more productivity hacks or tips on how to optimise your work and life.
You already have a pile of unread self-help books and long-forgotten courses.
I’m not interested in adding to your overwhelm or feeding your comparison.
I don’t believe that you’re stuck because you don’t know enough or you’re not good enough.
I think you’re stuck because you’re trying to live by rules that you never chose.
That’s a different problem. And it needs a different kind of work.
I work with a small number of people at a time. Because doing this properly takes actual attention. I'd rather work with fewer people well than more people badly.
Here's what's available…
(Un)learning isn’t a fixed roadmap.
It’s more like a choose-your-own-adventure book - except this time, you actually get to question the story being told.
My services are designed to meet you where you’re at right now, with room to shift and grow as you do.
One-off session
For when one thing is loud and you want to deal with it properly rather than think about it for another six months.
You bring the rule, the block, the pattern that keeps showing up. We spend 90 minutes on it… a conversation that gets to the actual thing, not the version of it you've been comfortable sharing. You walk away with clear next steps.
This is a standalone session. It doesn't lead anywhere else unless you want it to.
£250
Planning day
For when you need fresh eyes on the whole picture before you can move.
We spend a full day together. We go where the conversation needs to go… what you're trying to build or change, what keeps getting in the way, which rules are quietly running the show without your permission.
You leave with a plan on what's yours to do next.
How it works:
Before the day you'll answer a few questions so I can get up to speed on your situation.
On the day we go wherever the conversation needs to go. Sometimes that's strategy. Sometimes it's identity. Usually it's both, because you can't really separate them.
After the day you get a written summary of what we worked out together, plus two weeks of email support as you start to move forward.
The planning day is available as a standalone or as the starting point for the coaching package below.
£1,200
Payment plan available
Coaching: 6 or 12 months of support
For when you're done doing this alone and you want someone properly in your corner.
We start with the planning day - getting clear on what you're trying to do and what's in the way. Then we work together over 6 or 12 months, with a coaching call every month and Voxer or email support on set days in between.
This isn't tidy or linear… as you implement, question, get stuck, make decisions, lose the thread and find it again. I'm there for all of it.
The rules we uncover on the planning day don't disappear overnight. They come back dressed differently. Having someone who knows your situation and can spot it happening is the difference between noticing the old patterns coming back and getting swallowed by them again.
How it works:
A planning day to establish where you are, where you're going and what's in the way.
Monthly coaching calls across 6 or 12 months, plus Voxer and email support two days a week. You can bring whatever's live… a decision you're avoiding, a pattern you've noticed, something that happened that week that's bothering you more than it should.
A closing session to review what's shifted and what comes next.
The planning day is included in the package price.
£4,000
Payment plan available
I have space for a small number of coaching clients at a time. If you're interested, the best first step is a conversation.
(Un)learning in public
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The (un)learning community: £5/month or £50/year
Not ready for 1:1 work but want more than the free writing?
The paid community is where the ongoing conversation happens. Regular community calls, behind the scenes of my own unlearning experiments and practical tools to help you do yours.
Free is the writing. Paid is where we actually talk.
Not sure where to start?
Book a short introduction call and we’ll figure it out together. If it's not the right fit for either of us, we'll say so.