The (Un)learning Blueprint

One day identity and strategy intensive

Lee in a cafe, talking to a client who has their back to camera

You know something needs to change. The feeling is more than overwhelm. You’re doing meaningful work and quietly resenting it.

The accidental leader who believes in the impact of their work, wants to make a difference, but is losing themself in the process.

The founder who has put blood, sweat and tears into their business, but now can’t ease off in case it all crumbles.

The person on the edge of a big life change,  between identities and terrified of dragging old patterns into the new chapter.

You don’t want to burn everything down.
You don’t want a dramatic reinvention.
But you also can’t keep pretending nothing’s off.

That in-between space is where the Blueprint works best.

The real issue

You’re not confused. You’re conditioned - and probably exhausted by it! You’re:

  • Prioritising responsibility over desire

  • Optimising for approval

  • Avoiding rocking the boat

  • Over-functioning to feel safe

  • Making decisions from fear of regret

  • Performing success for others

You’ve probably tried productivity hacks, business planning sessions, vision boards, ‘mindset work’. You’ve bought the books, looked at the courses. But nothing’s sticking because the rules underneath haven’t shifted.

The Blueprint day is where coaching and NLP meets strategy.

You don’t need motivation. You need perspective, structure and a way to find yourself inside the great stuff you’re doing.

Over one full day we:

1️⃣ Map the rules

We identify the invisible expectations shaping:

  • Your decisions

  • Your leadership style

  • Your boundaries

  • Your relationship with money, time & responsibility

  • Your identity

2️⃣ See the system

You’ll understand how identity → behaviour → structure are interacting.

  • Where are you over-functioning?

  • Where are you performing?

  • Where are you self-silencing?

  • Where are you carrying a load that isn’t just yours to bear?

  • Where are you playing small to stay safe?

3️⃣ Design the next 90 days

This is where my strategic brain comes in. You don’t leave with vague clarity. You leave with:

  • A grounded 90-day direction

  • Clear experiments

  • Structural shifts (calendar, boundaries, priorities)

  • A strategy that fits who you are becoming

For some, that’s:

  • A business plan

  • A leadership reset

  • A communication and messaging matrix

  • A transition roadmap

  • A boundary overhaul

But it’s built on unlearning - not hype. This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about building a strategy that doesn’t require you to betray yourself.

The Blueprint gives you direction.

The Rebuild supports you while you live it.

What shifts

You stop overthinking and feeling like everything has to be solved at once. 

You leave with:

  • Direction

  • A grounded plan, with experiments and small meaningful changes

  • A sense of choice instead of pressure

You don’t become someone new. Your real identity becomes clearer. 

This is for you if:

  • You’re at a pivot, stepping into a new space or changes are happening around you

  • You’re carrying the weight of everything around with you all the time

  • You feel responsible and don’t want to ‘fail’ but know you can’t continue as you are

  • You want clarity without chaos

This is not for you if:

  • You want an off-the-shelf solution or someone to tell you what to do

  • You’re performing ‘getting your act’ together

  • You want validation, not disruption

What to expect

Pre-session questionnaire and planning

Full day in-person session* (including a lovely lunch)

Summary notes and write-up of 90-day plan

One week of follow-up email support 

£1500**

*additional costs to cover travel and accommodation may be applicable depending on location

**payment plan available

Not sure where to start?

If one specific thing feels loud, urgent or repetitive → Book an Intervention.
We interrupt the pattern and you move forward.

If you’re at a pivot and need clarity & direction → Choose the Blueprint.
We map the rules and design your next 90 days.

If you know your whole way of working and living needs to evolve → Apply for the Rebuild.
We don’t just plan differently. We live differently.

If you want space to experiment, reflect and recalibrate alongside others → Join The (Un)learning Lab.
A three-month identity reset where you question the rules, test real-life experiments and rebuild your agency in community - without committing to long-term 1:1 work.

Not ready to invest yet, but interested in how unlearning can help subscribe to (un)learning and get the free 30 Day FLIP

Still unsure?
Book a short introduction call and we’ll figure it out together.